This lady sounds like a real piece of work. Communication is not in her vocabulary. She also has some Disney level over-romanticized perspective of love.
Ghosting is immature and cruel. As she clearly knows because of the reaction it causes in the lovers she leaves that way. I have no patience to read the story of someone who behaves that way.
If we could have unfiltered access to what everyone was thinking, I don't think any relationship would ever survive. Everyone in a relationship knows that the same person can induce feelings of love, anger, passion, hate, disgust, contempt, joy, doubt, affection etc over a period of time. Commitment to a relationship means learning to look beyond a particular moment of any particular feelings.
She is clearly in the Shelby Galezby zone on the Vicky Mendoza diagonal.
The guy is lucky he dodged the "tried to kill you with a brick" level of crazy.
Three cats are two too many. So are four dogs and a cat. She doesn’t need a boyfriend, she needs an animal shelter to take care of. In Antarctica.
If your partner sees the need to rather talk to a machine than to you about how he/she feels, you are the problem.
And no level of J.K Rowling style writing is going to change that. Felinus Furiosa Exilium!
TLDR: She didn’t leave because she read it — she left because she couldn’t unfeel what it was like to be reduced to a liability list by someone who’d been kissing her goodnight. which is a fair response.
Curiosity killed the cat.
This lady sounds like a real piece of work. Communication is not in her vocabulary. She also has some Disney level over-romanticized perspective of love.
Ghosting is immature and cruel. As she clearly knows because of the reaction it causes in the lovers she leaves that way. I have no patience to read the story of someone who behaves that way.
She should be prosecuted for this invasion of privacy.
If we could have unfiltered access to what everyone was thinking, I don't think any relationship would ever survive. Everyone in a relationship knows that the same person can induce feelings of love, anger, passion, hate, disgust, contempt, joy, doubt, affection etc over a period of time. Commitment to a relationship means learning to look beyond a particular moment of any particular feelings.
This girl ghosts their long term boyfriend on the regular and thinks it's weird they break emotionally. I found that passage so weird.
She is clearly in the Shelby Galezby zone on the Vicky Mendoza diagonal. The guy is lucky he dodged the "tried to kill you with a brick" level of crazy.
Three cats are two too many. So are four dogs and a cat. She doesn’t need a boyfriend, she needs an animal shelter to take care of. In Antarctica.
If your partner sees the need to rather talk to a machine than to you about how he/she feels, you are the problem.
And no level of J.K Rowling style writing is going to change that. Felinus Furiosa Exilium!
TLDR: She didn’t leave because she read it — she left because she couldn’t unfeel what it was like to be reduced to a liability list by someone who’d been kissing her goodnight. which is a fair response. Curiosity killed the cat.